Showing posts with label Gossip. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Gossip. Show all posts

Wednesday, 18 May 2016

Mischievous Madness 19 (Pastor 'Lola Owotumi) 18-05-2016

MY SERMON NOTES
@ NDIC/DMO Fellowship
Central Business District,
Garki - Abuja
18th May, 2016

* Speaker: Pastor 'Lola Owotumi
* Topic: Mischievous Madness (19)
* Text: Proverbs 23:33 "Thine eyes shall behold strange women, and thine heart shall utter perverse things." (KJV)

Proverbs 15:2 →"The tongue of the wise useth knowledge aright: but the mouth of fools poureth out foolishness." (KJV) 

* Question: What comes out of your mouth?

Proverbs 15:4"A wholesome tongue is a tree of life: but perverseness therein is a breach in the spirit." (KJV) 

Proverbs 16:28 ''A froward man soweth strife: and a whisperer separateth chief friends." (KJV) 

* You must not use your mouth to sow strife & whispers that separate friends

* 'Whisperers' are deadly poison to be avoided
→ Shut them down when they bring their gossips to you

Numbers 12:1-2 →"And Miriam and Aaron spake against Moses because of the Ethiopian woman whom he had married: for he had married an Ethiopian woman. And they said, Hath the LORD indeed spoken only by Moses? hath he not spoken also by us? And the LORD heard it."

* God was not happy with Aaron and Miriam (Numbers 12:9-10)

* Unless you repent from gossip and tale bearing, you will be cut off from the congregation of the righteous (Numbers 12:14-15)

Prayer:
"Lord, help me to use my mouth to give you glory 
and edify your people;
May my tongue not lead me into trouble."



Tuesday, 17 May 2016

Mischievous Madness 18 (Pastor 'Lola Owotumi) 17-05-2016

MY SERMON NOTES
@ NDIC/DMO Fellowship
Central Business District,
Garki - Abuja
17th May, 2016

* Speaker: Pastor 'Lola Owotumi
* Topic: Mischievous Madness (18)
* Text: Proverbs 23:33 "Thine eyes shall behold strange women, and thine heart shall utter perverse things." (KJV)

Psalm 15:1-3"Lord, who may abide in Your tabernacle? Who may dwell in Your holy hill? He who walks uprightly, And works righteousness, And speaks the truth in his heart; He who does not backbite with his tongue, Nor does evil to his neighbor, Nor does he take up a reproach against his friend." (KJV) 

* You must not misuse the information that comes to you by virtue of your privileged position (in whatever capacity)
→ This is especially true for believers and ministers of the Gospel

* Slander must be very far from you



* Those who are wise will guard their tongue

* God expects you to abide in wisdom

* You know a foolish man as soon as he opens his mouth

Titus 1:10 →"For there are many insubordinate, both idle talkers and deceivers, especially those of the circumcision, whose mouths must be stopped, who subvert whole households, teaching things which they ought not, for the sake of dishonest gain." (KJV)

Proverbs 15:4"A wholesome tongue is a tree of life, But perverseness in it breaks the spirit." (KJV) 

Prayer:
"Father, make my tongue wholesome"

Monday, 16 May 2016

Mischievous Madness 17 (Pastor 'Lola Owotumi) 16-05-2016

MY SERMON NOTES
@ NDIC/DMO Fellowship
Central Business District,
Garki - Abuja
16th May, 2016

* Speaker: Pastor 'Lola Owotumi
* Topic: Mischievous Madness (17)
* Text: Proverbs 23:33 →"Thine eyes shall behold strange women, and thine heart shall utter perverse things." (KJV)

* The fact that a person preaches the Gospel does not exclude him or her from speaking perverse things

* Those who misuse the privilege they have as ministers to speak perverse things will be judge

James 3:1 "My brethren, let not many of you become teachers, knowing that we shall receive a stricter judgment."  (KJV) 

* Your service unto the Lord shall be judged by Him

* NOTE: Anybody can be rejected

Matthew 12:35-37 →''A good man out of the good treasure of his heart brings forth good things, and an evil man out of the evil brings forth evil things. But I say to you that for every idle word men may speak, they will give account of it in the day of judgment. For by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned."

* You must watch your mouth so that you do not speak idle words

* Every word you speak should be for the edification of your hearers

Job 42:7-8 → "And so it was, after the Lord had spoken these words to Job, that the Lord said to Eliphaz the Temanite, “My wrath is aroused against you and your two friends, for you have not spoken of Me what is right, as My servant Job has. Now therefore, take for yourselves seven bulls and seven rams, go to My servant Job, and offer up for yourselves a burnt offering; and My servant Job shall pray for you. For I will accept him, lest I deal with you according to your folly; because you have not spoken of Me what is right, as My servant Job has.”

* Do not use your words to discourage others or undermine the service of a minister of the Gospel

* The Minister you are speaking against and undermining is the one praying for you
→ If God is angry, He will turn his blessings for you into curses

* Your negative words have the potential to destroy the faith of others

* There is a command for us that we must not speak evil against another person

James 4:11-12"Do not speak evil of one another, brethren. He who speaks evil of a brother and judges his brother, speaks evil of the law and judges the law. But if you judge the law, you are not a doer of the law but a judge. There is one Lawgiver, who is able to save and to destroy. Who are you to judge another?" (NKJV)

* Anytime you speak evil against others, you cause people to disrespect them

Psalm 141:3"Set a guard, O Lord, over my mouth; Keep watch over the door of my lips."

* Fear the anointing of God that is upon the lives of your leaders

Prayer:
"Father, make my tongue wholesome;
May my mouth be a fountain of life and blessing."

Monday, 10 November 2014

Interaction on Family Matters (Pastor 'Lola Owotumi) 10-11-2014

★  MY SERMON NOTES 
NDIC/DMO Chapel
Central Business District, 
Garki - Abuja 
10th November, 2014  

* Leader: Pastor 'Lola Owotumi
* Topic: Interaction on Family Matters


* Your spouse should be your best friend



* When you entertain gossip in your marital relationship, trust will be eroded



* Watch who gives you advice 

- Watch the background of your advisers


* Note: The friends you keep always have a great influence in your life






* When you keep your distance from the Church and other believers, you become susceptible to sin and evil






* All that you need that pertains to life and godliness is contained in the Word of God (2 Peter 1:3)



* The best counsel you can get in any circumstance is found in the Bible, and through the counsel of committed believers



* Do not follow signs & wonders - it should be the other way round 



* Stick to the Word of God at all times. 
- It must be your standard and basis for taking decisions