Showing posts with label Raising Godly Children. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Raising Godly Children. Show all posts

Sunday, 12 June 2016

The Early Years of Jesus (Pastor Sarah Omakwu) 12-06-2016

★ MY SERMON NOTES
@ Family Worship Centre (FWC)
Wuye, Abuja
2nd Sunday Service
12th June, 2016


Pastor Sarah Omakwu 
Picture Credit: FWC Media

☆ SERMON
* Speaker: Pastor Sarah Omakwu
* Topic: The Early Years of Jesus
* Theme: Our Jesus
* Text: Luke 2:21-52

★ Proverbs 22:6 →"Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it." 

* Jesus came from Bethlehem, one of the towns of Judah
★ Micah 5:2

* He came from a humble 'human' background.
→ Joseph and Mary were just ordinary people looking forward to an ordinary marriage, but Jesus' birth into their family and changed their lives because He was not an ordinary child
→ Jesus charged the trajectory of his parents
☆ Question: What have you changed in the lives of your parents? Have you made their lives better or worse?

* NOTE: Your children are not ordinary and you must diligently train them up to fulfill the purpose of God in their lives

* Jesus came [to the earth] by prophesy
→ You also came by prophesy and you are not ordinary. Your birth Was not merely happenstance
→ You must stop living life as if you are ordinary

* The most noblest thing for every woman to do is to take care of her husband and raise great giants for God
→ No amount of professional, social or business achievement can compare with that!
→ We live in a world where parents abandon their family at the expense of career - especially mothers

* As a child, you must do something to lift up your parents and change their trajectory for the better

* Jesus is God, yet He was born into a humble human family and lived a humble life
→ He did not make a big deal out of the fact that He came from a 'Royal' background
→ Regardless of your present circumstances, you will breakthrough and become great someday. Remain humble.

* Nazareth was a small despised town that Philip (a would-be disciple of Jesus) thought that nothing good or valuable could ever come out of it

* You must not allow people's pessimistic comments to discourage you from becoming what God wants you to be

☆ Challenge: You must be that good thing that proceeds out of your clan!
→ You were created to break the bounds of ordinary and show forth the [extraordinary] praise of God

* Many parents today are consumed in the endless quest for acquiring material things, while the lives of their children are falling apart

* NOTE: Joseph really took care of Jesus and was 'hands on' with respect to the godly upbringing of Jesus
→ He was intensely involved in the life of Jesus at every step of the way

* The purpose of your birthing children is to craft them to become what God wanted them to be
→ Don't just give them things
→ Ensure that you spend quality time with them, mentoring them in God's precepts

* Young boys (especially children of single mothers) need godly men who will mentor them, not those who will come around and want to take advantage of their sisters or mothers

* Do not relegate your responsibility of raising your kids to the television [or the maids]!
→ what the television spews out, that is what they will consume

* Mary was a woman of the Word
★ Luke 1:46-55 (she quoted scriptures)
→ Mary directed Jesus when he was growing up.
→ She taught Him the Torah (The 5 books of Moses)

* Jesus had a strict Jewish upbringing
→ He was taken to the Passover, to the Synagogue etc. till it became His way of life when He started ministry at the age of 30

→ Your children must also be brought up and instructed in the way of the Lord

* By age 13 Jesus must have become a 'Bar Mitzvah' (son of the commandment)
→ Jesus did that so that He will never be termed a lawless person
→ He fulfilled all righteousness

* Your children can achieve all they can (academically, socially and materially), but if they do not have Jesus, they are nothing!
→ The outcome of your children is the report card of your parenting

* NOTE: A good foundation is important

* Training is more than telling.
→ It involves teaching, mentoring and modelling

* Do not just tell them about God, 'show' them God
→ Be a godly example
→ You must be willing to 'travel down the road' yourself with your children
* You must remove anything that introduces demonic influence in the the lives of your children:
→ pornographic materials
→ Indecent clothes
→ alcoholic drinks in the fridge
etc

* To train a child in the way he/she should go, you must be in the way yourself!

* NOTE: Children do not do what you say; they do what you do!
→ Question: Are you doing the right thing?

* The goal of training is to make the trainee proficient

★ Verse 51:
→ Jesus was subject and obedient to His parents
→ Parents must be proactive and diligent in disciplining their children to do the right thing at all times

* Do not go to Church and leave your children at home
→ Teach them the importance of fellowship and the discipline of praying and studying God's word right from an early age

★ Proverbs 22:15 →"Foolishness is bound up in the heart of a child; The rod of correction will drive it far from him."

* NOTE: discipline must be done in love
→ Do not carry out your frustration on your children

* NOTE: After the age of 12, nothing was recorded about Jesus until He was 30
→ He was busy learning subjection (to His earthy parents) in silence and humility, before His manifestation in Ministry
→ You must not be in a hurry to be 'seen' by the world. Take time to prepare yourself in your closet before going public

☆ Lessons to learn:
* Your background is important as a springboard to worship God
→ You background has happened, your future has not happened. Therefore, your background must not be used to deprive you of a glorious future

* Do not allow what people say about you to discourage you
→ You can make it
→ Your greater days are ahead of you
→ There is hope for you

* You must refuse to be small and ordinary

☆ Challenge: Prove somebody wrong!
→ There are always pessimists that try to pull you down but you must not fall into their trap
→ Believe what God says about you in His Word and step out in faith

* NOTE: Family is important
→ Pay attention to raising godly kids
→ Women: Your scorecard is your children
→ Do not ignore your children's upbringing in the process of building a career or business

* Godliness is the greatest legacy you can give your children
⇒ Not money in the account
→ Not even a good education!

* Come with your child to Church
→ Dedicate them to God's service, especially your first born

* Name your children well
→ Names have a prophetic significance that influences the children's destiny
→ A child's name is what he/will do

* NOTE: Jesus was learning submission for 18 years before He started public ministry at age 30!
* Through submission, you will get blessings and favor
→ Never leave a place of employment without a blessing from your employee
→ When you are getting married, ensure you get the blessings of your parents and pastors. Ensure you fulfill all cultural rites (pay her dowry!)

★ Proverbs 28:20 →"A faithful man will abound with blessings, But he who hastens to be rich will not go unpunished."

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☆ Closing:
☆ Pastor Wilson Akubo
★ Judges 13:12 →''Manoah said, “Now let Your words come to pass! What will be the boy's rule of life, and his work?”
→ You must ask the Lord for the rule of God concerning the life of every child God gives you

☆ QUOTE:
"In your business, you cannot outsource seed."
→ Mr. Boss Mustapha

Thursday, 5 May 2016

Responsibilities of Spouses (Husband) 05-05-2016

★ MY SERMON NOTES
Christian Couples Fellowship (CCF)
Lugbe Group, Abuja Zone
5th May, 2016

* Topic: Responsibilities of the Husband
* Leader: Barr. Panshak Haggai
 
1. The Husband as Father:
- Training is a process of inculcating moral, spiritual, physical and economic (etc) values in children
- The difference between teaching and training is that teaching involves passing of information (whether learning occurs or not) while training is a sort of continuous discipleship whereby the character of a child is transformed
 
* For training to be effective: 
- It must be practical (children learn more from what they observe in their parent's lives)
- It must be consistent
- It must be done with a specific goal in mind

(b) Discipline (Proverbs 13:24; Ephesians 6:4)
* Discipline is a process of correcting a child when a wrong occurs
 
* Principles to note in Child Discipline:
- do not discipline a child to the point that he/she becomes provoked or discouraged
- ensure that you explain why you are disciplining the child
- discipline must be done in love
- always consider the age and temperament of a child in choosing an appropriate form of discipline
- a parent must not always over-react when children does wrong
- both parents must be one while disciplining their children. They must always be on the same side!
 
(c) Encourage & Exhort (Colossians 3:21)
- Children need to be constantly encouraged
- Parents must be wary of the words they use against their children especially when they fail in school or are not performing as good as their peers
- Your words should always be gracious towards your children
- When a parent is harsh, a child may be pushed to rebellion

2. The Husband as Head and Provider
(a) Hardwork (1 Timothy 5:8)
- It is the sole responsibility of the Husband to provide for the home
- A man must not be lazy
- When the husband's income or job is affected, the wife should support him if she is able
- A woman who becomes the breadwinner of the family  must not look down on her husband and she must not cause the children to disrespect him

(b) Pastor of the House (Deuteronomy 6:1-6; Job 1:1-5; Joshua 24:14-15)
- The husband is the Priest of his own home and he is expected to take the lead in spiritual matters  
- The spiritual wellbeing of the family is the husband's primary responsibility.
- He must always take the lead in family worship
- He must not abandon that duty to his wife, though she may support him  
- His goal should be to ensure that everyone in his house makes heaven

Sunday, 16 August 2015

Raising Godly Children (Mrs. Yinka Adeboye) 16-08-2015

★ MY SERMON NOTES
Christian Couples Fellowship (CCF)
Couple's Annual Retreat
@ Miango Rest Home (MRH), Miango,
Plateau State, Nigeria
16th August, 2015 (Day Four)

SUNDAY WORSHIP SERVICE/PRAYER FOR COUPLES


* Speaker: Mrs. Yinka Adeboye
* Topic: Raising Godly Children
* Text: Psalm 127:1 →"Unless the LORD builds the house, its builders labour uselessly. Unless the LORD guards the city, its security forces keep watch uselessly."

* If you leave the aspect of the mercy of God out of your life, nothing will work.

* You can't leave God out of child upbringing
→ nothing will work regardless of the moral and academic principles that you employ outside God

* You cannot push the aspect of prayer aside when it comes to raising children.
→ You cannot raise godly children without prayer

* As you pray for your children, the power of God will transform them and they will become godly

* NOTE: This message is not only for those who have biological children:
→ God expects even mature Christian to have spiritual children (disciples)
→ If you are raising only biological children, then you are operating at less than your full God-given potential!

☆ Matthew 15:21-28
→ Note, that in the above passage, though it was the woman's daughter that was possessed, the woman asked Jesus to have mercy on her (as a parent) and she did not relent in making her request in spite of the discouragements she encountered
→ Jesus commended her faith on behalf of her daughter

* All that Jesus is looking for in a father or mother is faith, regardless of the state of their children
→ There is nothing that God's mercy and faith (in Him) cannot do

* What you say to your children is very important especially (when you are angry or disappointed with them)
→ Ensure that you speak positive words into their lives consistently

★ Proverbs 18:21 →"The power of the tongue is life and death— those who love to talk will eat what it produces."
 
⇒"Your words can kill or give life. They are either poison or life."
(the Massage translation)

* NOTE: What you say (to your children) is totally your choice & there are consequences

* Speak only positive words into the life of your children

★ SOME SCRIPTURES YOU CAN USE TO PRAY FOR YOUR CHILDREN:

☆ Luke 2:40 →"Meanwhile, the child continued to grow and to become strong. He was filled with wisdom, and God’s favor rested upon him."

☆ Luke 2:52 →"Meanwhile, Jesus kept on growing wiser and more mature, and in favor with God and his fellow man."

☆ 1 Samuel 2:26 →"And the child Samuel grew on, and was in favour both with the LORD, and also with men."

☆ 1 Samuel 3:19 →"And Samuel grew, and the LORD was with him, and did let none of his words fall to the ground."

☆ Isaiah 8:18 →"Behold, I and the children whom the LORD hath given me are for signs and for wonders in Israel from the LORD of hosts, which dwelleth in mount Zion."

☆ Isaiah 54:13 →"And all thy children shall be taught of the LORD; and great shall be the peace of thy children."

☆ Isaiah 11:1-2 →"And there shall come forth a rod out of the stem of Jesse, and a Branch shall grow out of his roots: And the spirit of the LORD shall rest upon him, the spirit of wisdom and understanding, the spirit of counsel and might, the spirit of knowledge and of the fear of the LORD."