Showing posts with label Training. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Training. Show all posts

Sunday, 16 August 2015

Raising Godly Children (Mrs. Yinka Adeboye) 16-08-2015

★ MY SERMON NOTES
Christian Couples Fellowship (CCF)
Couple's Annual Retreat
@ Miango Rest Home (MRH), Miango,
Plateau State, Nigeria
16th August, 2015 (Day Four)

SUNDAY WORSHIP SERVICE/PRAYER FOR COUPLES


* Speaker: Mrs. Yinka Adeboye
* Topic: Raising Godly Children
* Text: Psalm 127:1 →"Unless the LORD builds the house, its builders labour uselessly. Unless the LORD guards the city, its security forces keep watch uselessly."

* If you leave the aspect of the mercy of God out of your life, nothing will work.

* You can't leave God out of child upbringing
→ nothing will work regardless of the moral and academic principles that you employ outside God

* You cannot push the aspect of prayer aside when it comes to raising children.
→ You cannot raise godly children without prayer

* As you pray for your children, the power of God will transform them and they will become godly

* NOTE: This message is not only for those who have biological children:
→ God expects even mature Christian to have spiritual children (disciples)
→ If you are raising only biological children, then you are operating at less than your full God-given potential!

☆ Matthew 15:21-28
→ Note, that in the above passage, though it was the woman's daughter that was possessed, the woman asked Jesus to have mercy on her (as a parent) and she did not relent in making her request in spite of the discouragements she encountered
→ Jesus commended her faith on behalf of her daughter

* All that Jesus is looking for in a father or mother is faith, regardless of the state of their children
→ There is nothing that God's mercy and faith (in Him) cannot do

* What you say to your children is very important especially (when you are angry or disappointed with them)
→ Ensure that you speak positive words into their lives consistently

★ Proverbs 18:21 →"The power of the tongue is life and death— those who love to talk will eat what it produces."
 
⇒"Your words can kill or give life. They are either poison or life."
(the Massage translation)

* NOTE: What you say (to your children) is totally your choice & there are consequences

* Speak only positive words into the life of your children

★ SOME SCRIPTURES YOU CAN USE TO PRAY FOR YOUR CHILDREN:

☆ Luke 2:40 →"Meanwhile, the child continued to grow and to become strong. He was filled with wisdom, and God’s favor rested upon him."

☆ Luke 2:52 →"Meanwhile, Jesus kept on growing wiser and more mature, and in favor with God and his fellow man."

☆ 1 Samuel 2:26 →"And the child Samuel grew on, and was in favour both with the LORD, and also with men."

☆ 1 Samuel 3:19 →"And Samuel grew, and the LORD was with him, and did let none of his words fall to the ground."

☆ Isaiah 8:18 →"Behold, I and the children whom the LORD hath given me are for signs and for wonders in Israel from the LORD of hosts, which dwelleth in mount Zion."

☆ Isaiah 54:13 →"And all thy children shall be taught of the LORD; and great shall be the peace of thy children."

☆ Isaiah 11:1-2 →"And there shall come forth a rod out of the stem of Jesse, and a Branch shall grow out of his roots: And the spirit of the LORD shall rest upon him, the spirit of wisdom and understanding, the spirit of counsel and might, the spirit of knowledge and of the fear of the LORD."

Tuesday, 28 April 2015

Train Up Your Child in The way of the Lord (Pastor Peter Adebola) 28-04-2015

★ MY SERMON NOTES
Naming Ceremony
of Miss. Chimnemelum Blossom Samara Uche
@ Federal Housing Estate, Lugbe
Abuja - Nigeria
28th April, 2015

* Speaker: Pastor Peter Adebola
* Topic: Train Up Your Child in The way of the Lord
 
 

* Names are very important to God
- God Himself has several names
- When God wanted to do something spectacular in the life of a man, He addresses the issue of that man's name. For instance: God changed Abram and Sarai's names to 'Abraham' and 'Sarah' respectively when He wanted to bless them (Genesis 17:5 and 15); Jacob's name was changed to Israel (Genesis 32:28 and 35:10); Jesus changed Simon's name to Cephas (that is: Peter) (John 1:42)  

* Just like God, we must take names important

* Anything of value must pass through a process
→ A great child must pass through rigorous training (spiritually, academically, physically, socially etc.)

★ Proverbs 22:4 → "Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it."

* Child training in the way of the Lord supersedes any kind of training

* Spiritual training is very important
→ It forms a foundation for a great future

* God will hold you responsible for instructing your children in the way of the Lord
→ You must ensure that they do not grow up to become wayward or backward

★ 1st Samuel 3:13 →" For I have told him that I will judge his house for ever for the iniquity which he knoweth; because his sons made themselves vile, and he restrained them not."

★ Genesis 18:19 → "For I know him, that he will command his children and his household after him, and they shall keep the way of the LORD, to do justice and judgment; that the LORD may bring upon Abraham that which he hath spoken of him."

★ Joshua 24:15 → "And if it seem evil unto you to serve the LORD, choose you this day whom ye will serve; whether the gods which your fathers served that were on the other side of the flood, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land ye dwell: but as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD."

* God will not hold the church responsible for your failure [in raising your child in the fear of the Lord.]

→ Training of children is generational
★ 2 Timothy 1:5 → "When I call to remembrance the unfeigned faith that is in thee, which dwelt first in thy grandmother Lois, and thy mother Eunice; and I am persuaded that in thee also."

* Pay the price to train your children
- A well trained child is a product of consistent instruction and investment in time, prayer, discipline, money, and the like

* Spiritual training outweighs every other training
- Many parents spend a lot of money to ensure that their children get the best secular educational training, but they neglect instructing their children in the fear of the Lord.  

* Training of children is a sacrificial venture. It does not come easy, and initially, the child may not even appreciate it!

* You don't have to indulge them in everything
- Generally, children always want to have their way. They want to sleep longer in the mornings; they want to sleep late at night; they don't want to go to school everyday; etc. -  the list is endless!  

* As a parent, you have to be tender and tough at the same time
- You must learn to strike a balance when disciplining your children. Avoid both extremes of toughness or permissive tenderness.  

* Do not over-pamper your children
- It is good to let the kids have treats occasionally, but when it is too much or too frequent, it becomes detrimental

* You have to train your child today so that the child can be 'traced' tomorrow.
- What you sow in their lives is exactly what you reap in the future 

* Your children cannot be 'too young' to be instructed in the way of the Lord
- Some parents think that younger children should not be disciplined or instructed. This is wrong.
- NOTE: Younger children learn faster and retain better!