★ MY SERMON NOTES
@ NDIC/DMO Fellowship
Central Business District,
Garki - Abuja
3rd May, 2016
Intern's Fellowship
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| Pastor Ambrose Nwogu |
* Speaker: Pastor Ambrose Nwogu
* Topic: Questions & Answer (How to get over a broken Relationship)
★ Question: How to get over a broken Relationship
★ Text: Proverbs 3:13 →"How joyful is the man who finds wisdom, and the man who gains understanding."
★ Proverbs 4:13 →"Hold on to instruction, do not let it go! Guard wisdom, because she is your life!"
☆ Answer:
→ The best way to get over a broken relationship is to find out what caused the breakage in the first place
* NOTE: There is no need for a young person just starting out in life to put himself/herself in a situation where heartbreak is inevitable.
- But if it ever happens, it must be managed with wisdom
☆ Practical Tips for Overcoming Heartbreak:
1. Cut off further communication
→ You'll never heal if you keep in touch with a person you have broken up with
2. Stop seeing or visiting the person
3. Forgive the person who hurt you
→ This is not a suggestion. It is God's command
→ If you carry the hurt, you wll be miserable
4. Release them from your mind
→ realize that you still have a life to live after that relationship
5. You may wish to give out anything that reminds you of the person
6. Stop talking about them in every conversation
7. Be yourself
→ Don't be nasty to the person who comes when you are ready for a relationship
→ Don't suspect that you'll be hurt again
→ Let the wounds of the previous relationship heal
* Getting over a broken relationship is a decision that you must make yourself
☆ NOTE: it is not everybody that will get married
